BAAP of all deals -DEALGURU

You can now shop online like never before with exciting offers and deals that you have long waited for. So why wait? The much awaited deal site at AskmeBAzaaar not only offers you rock bottom prices but also gives you an amazing shopping experience which is more reliable and full of choices with categories like fashion, beauty, electronics, home appliances and much much more.

What is more is that you get a variety of brand stores online at dealguru where you can view complete details of each product and the details of the vendor shipping the product along with contact details, before making a purchase.

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AskmeBazaar Generates Content/Image, DealGuru Generates Orders

Product samples are requested from sellers by AskmeBazaar, reviewed and identified for suitable pricing which on confirmation from the seller, the deal then strikes off and made live on DealGuru. This deal turns out to be of great advantage to the consumers, who are keen on purchasing products which come with good discounts, available to be viewed online and purchased. On confirmation of the orders, the same is delivered to the desired location without much strain and effort in the shopping process.

AskmeBazaar is the one who generates the content as well as the images of the products which are made available at the site for the benefit of the viewers. Once the order is placed and the payment process completed, DealGuru then generates the orders placed and ensures that the delivery of the products are done to the buyers as per their estimated schedule. They then send the confirmation of the delivery details to the buyer keeping them updated on the process of the order.

AskmeBazaar Undertakes Process Return Request

On successful delivery of the said order, the amount is then transferred to the seller after making the deductions and fulfilment of their commitment and charges as agreed upon by them. AskmeBazaar also undertakes to process return request, when the need arises.With presently over one thousand live deals together with more than nine hundred sellers, consumers are at an advantage of variety of choices to choose from which ranges from Apparels, fashion like jewellery, bags, footwear, accessories, in beauty products related to cosmetic and perfumes.

Home appliance like storages, utensils, etc. in electronics – accessories, storage devices, etc. and much more are all available at the site. Consumers also have the option of navigation and refining their search on the desired products through their search option which enables the viewer to locate their desired product if they are available at the site.

Baap of all Apps-AskMe

AskMe.com provides a simple solution to the user by eliminating the need to switch between different platforms like JustDial, OLX, Snapdeal, Groupon and more. All these options are available on one place i.e. AskMe.com and it does not end here it can turn out to be a boon for users particularly on mobile as they don’t need to switch
back and forth.

Once you Download AskMe App, You can start you local search like never before within seconds even standing by roadside. It has become even easier to use this service from a mobile phone than from a desktop PC.

You can also review items on the the AskMe.com platform before making a final decision and that is something which completes your search from start to end on the AskMe.com

How to use this App? Go to the home screen of AskMe.com app,just type in what you are searching for and there you go.

The ease and convenience of the AskMe.com app gives you the power to search “on the go” in your local area. It does not matter what you may be looking for, you can find it all on AskMe.com. So if you are on a road trip or away from your desktop, don’t just wait.

Karma or The Result?

When I was twelve years old, I asked my mother “Mumma! What’s the point of studying? I know addition then why am I told to add kg and m in separate chapters? It’s the same addition!” and my mother replied “Maths will help you when you will buy things, English will help you understand the mathematics questions, Hindi is our mother tongue…” and she went on!! At the end I was told “beta karma karo, falkichinta mat karo”.

But I am old now, in the sense it’s 12 to 18; SIX YEARS, and today I realise, that policy have changed to: “Think about the result and then jump on karma.” Let me make it clearer.

Today when a student who opts for non-medical stream is asked what you want to do, he will say “I will become a Computer Science Engineer.” Ask him the same question after 2 years and this time the reply will be “CS industry is facing recession. No Engineering. I will do something else.” That student won’t give a thought to ‘why I took non-med. Then?’ because he is worried about the recession instead of what he is interested in.

Sometimes commerce or a science student wants to become a writer or a singer or a dancer. Parents directly tell him “Writer? He has no future. No publisher will give you space. Your brother is a doctor. Look at him.” Let him try. What if he succeeds? They will proudly say “My son is a WRITER.”

The last one! Sometimes when you help a poor or a disabled, the question that people will put up is “what will you get by helping them? C’mon stop wasting money in travelling and going there. You will tire yourself.” Firstly we are asked to come out of our nests and explore the world and when we are looking towards the real world and getting out of our nests we are told “YOU WILL TIRE YOURSELF”!! Travelling is the part of exploring. Helping a poor or disabled will help the society grow, poor and disabled are part of it and it’s our duty to deal with them in the best possible way.

#CONCLUSION: It is the result that we see today and decide the karma. I want to become an engineer means no recession can change that thought but things are in the other way.
A writer is told that he has no future. People will think about the result of “no publisher will give him a space” instead of letting him do what he want to do. And the same goes for the helping thing.
Recession first engineer next, publishing first writer then, get first help later—-> RESULT FIRST KARMA NEXT.

English Vinglish- What’s so Cool about it?

“Hey, I am calling from Delhi and wish to place an order with you ….. ”

“Hey can I please get an extra tissue?”

“Hello can you please tell me the price of this dress after discount?”

Doesn’t it sound familiar to you? Don’t you use such sentences in your daily life, too often? Even when it is not required, we actually use this language in our lives. My problem is not with the language or its use. My thoughts wander to make me question why do we use it? Why do we use it so often? Don’t you agree that you feel a little more stylish and confident when you are actually talking to someone in English? No matter you are just at a store or called a customer care or placing an order for home delivery, you use not your mother tongue but English. Why?

I remember an incident when I met a German woman. She was having some difficulty to find her way and when I noticed that I went to her and helped her out. In lieu of my help she said a proper Namaste with her hands folded. That touched me a lot. I put it up on my Facebook too. But the other day a friend of mine pointed out, “what was so moving about that?”. “Do you think if you go to Germany or Italy or any other place in Europe and you say some word of their language they will also feel “moved”, so much that they put it up on their Facebook account? Why are we all so colonized?”

I had no answer. I really do not have a colonized mentality when it comes to considering my language inferior and English superior. But somewhere like all of us, I too am with a colonized mentally. And my friend made me realize that. I do not aim to generalize anything here. But I am sure somewhere we are all colonized. I am sure somewhere we all feel that we should talk in English, we should not use Hindi at certain places or it will be so uncool and unsophisticated. When we suddenly come across elderly people we start using Hindi as we generally assume they will not understand English. But that is not so. I feel that the elderly people, those of my grandparent’s generation I mean, are much more confident of their mother tongue and capable enough to not feel ashamed of using it no matter where they go. Not many of us are proud and comfortable using Hindi everywhere. I am myself a student of English literature. I sometimes quiz myself, “if I am so much in love with literature why didn’t I instead of English study Hindi? Do I have any rights to claim my patriotism yet?”

I agree English has become the language of opportunity. English is the language that has become a must to get good jobs. But why not we just make sure that we don’t get so engrossed with this language of our past colonizers so much that we undermine our own language? Why cannot we freely use Hindi, by freely I mean without feeling uncomfortable, uncool and unsophisticated, in our day to day life, like talking to the Pizza delivery boy or the store manager or our beautician etc. Why?

Criminals are made not born?

A criminal is a person who has committed a crime or has been legally convicted of a crime.

In today’s society there are many sociological issues that affect who we are and what goes on in our world today. One burning issue would be criminals. A big question asked consistently is are criminals born or made?

To me this question falls under the category of stereotyping. When born, there are many factors that influence the way we view and observe the world.

There are some factors which I feel make a normal person a criminal:

Family Issues-

If the parents are unable to care for the child, an ignored child ,Abusive parents (physically and mentally),Poor parental love, Children of alcoholics and drug users ,These are major areas that can affect the brain of a young child. In some cases like abusive parents, the child tends to imitate what he/she has gone through in the early childhood; he/she would be a mirror reflection of the abuses he/she had gone through. That is why it is advised not to even quarrel in front of the child.

Circumstantial Factors

Sometimes a person due to some circumstances loses his normal state of mind. At that moment, he may do something which he may not do in a normal state of mind.

During this period, as the person is driven by feelings and not by his senses, he may commit a crime and may be considered as a criminal in the eyes of law and society.

Peer Pressure-

Sometimes a person due to the influence of the peer pressure may perform some action which may be not be right.

The problem of peer pressure is a major issue which the young generation is facing.The youngsters today feel the need and desire to showoff and are willing to go to any limits for the sake of proving themselves.

It seems that sometimes they lose their mind while following their heart. Their decisions are driven by feelings and not by proper thinking.

Economic Factors-

Suppose a person who studies very hard and still is not able to get a job (unemployment) or a person who works very hard but is still not able to fulfill even the basic needs of his/her family, then obviously he may retort to shortcuts and may become a criminal while following the “shortcut to success” which ultimately will become a “shortcut to hell” for him/her.

External Factors-

The environment that children grow up in also plays a key role as well.What I mean by this is if a child is exposed to seeing drug dealers on every corner it is a matter of time before they get confronted by one themselves.Either they will become apart of the drug game and other cartels they will began to start selling it themselves or they will turn into a drug addict.

Both, in my opinion, are worse situations. Once they get hooked on drugs and cannot afford to pay, they start stealing and becoming thieves.

Every child when born is an innocent angel, a god gift to the parents. It depends on the upbringing of the child on how the character and the personality of the child is formed.

My personal opinion on this would be that criminals are not born, but are rather made due to certain conditions in their lives.

It has been seen that many a times a person coming from a good background may become a criminal whereas a person with a criminal background may become a good person who works for the welfare of society.

THE RED SHOES

Foot wear have always been the favorite part of a girl’s closet. She can spend thousands of rupees on shoes but still never be completely satisfied. Black, blue, white, nude, pink have been on the top favorites of most of the girls since years. Though the color red has been a little controversial since a long time but from a past few years, this has been the color in vogue! Red footwear can be worn with all type of attires. From a casual day look to the formal party look, with red shoes in your closet you are all set to go! At this present moment, red shoes are a part and parcel of every girl’s closet. Red shoes can punch up the blandest of outfits and make them bold and bright.

If you are getting ready for a party and you are all set with your sexy dress and the accessories all you need to make a lasting impression among others is to grab a pair of red high heels. For a casual day look what you need to do with your attire is to term them up with a pair of red flats and you are all set to go to make a lasting impression. Red foot wears has created wonders in boosting up the confidence and giving you a whole new and more desirable look.

Many girls are still a little bit skeptical about red shoes. And for all those girls who consider red a very bright color can try out by wearing a deeper and darker shade of red like maroon or burgundy. Come on girls, experimentation is really essential to keep your image maintained. Even if your dress has neutral shades like black, white or nude, teaming them up with red shoes can completely change the whole look. While wearing black heels would give them a much dull look, red heels can instantly brighten you up! Red shoes would also look amazing with skinny jeans and a skin fit top.

Though the color red is very much “in” this season but an overdo of red can change your look into a fashion disaster. For example teaming red shoes with neutral shades like black, white, beige, gray or brown would give you a decent look but wearing them with your red, yellow or green dress would completely kill your look. Red shoes are the sexiest footwear your closet can posses, if you have them in your closet, well you don’t need anything else to give you a more glamorous look!

The color red has really evolved in past years. It the sexiest and coolest pair of shoes any girl can own. It can be your friend when you need an instant confidence booster…it surely can provide you with that! Bellies, stilettos, casual heels or any footwear in red can give you the much needed glamorous look instantly! Choose them wisely and term them up accordingly, and you are all set to possess the ultimate diva look throughout the day. So come on ladies…think something different from the regular neutral shades of shoes and be ready to be admired by all!

An Open Letter to All

Dear all,

I am indeed very glad to witness your protests for rape cases , your speeches , debates and discussions on women empowerment and your promises to safeguard women in the country . I am grateful to you but I would have never preferred you to take the pain of coming to the streets and protesting or  holding large scale campaigns . Why not start by fixing up your own funny little grey cells !!

If you think rape , molestation and sexual harassment are the only problems that women face then I would like to turn your attention to many other  things that make us feel suffocated and doomed wherever we go .

Since my childhood I have always been told by you to learn household work along with my studies while my brother never bothered to see if anything else existed apart from his school , friends and cricket . When you are nurtured  a sense of patriarchy in him since childhood how did you expect him to respect his wife later in his life . He would do anything he liked and  you would ask me to behave like a “girl” .

” Don’t play with boys don’t hang out with your male friends , don’t speak in loud voice , don’t answer back !! ”

Why ?  Why shouldn’t I speak ?

Are you afraid that I will eventually blurt out all those stupid things I m subjected to  ?

Why do I have to prove myself when I want to pursue a course of my choice when my brother is provided with all the facilities he never asked for ?

Why do you limit your daughter to all those “girly” things when she wants to go out into the world and live freely?

When it comes to marriage why am I asked  “Arey , aapki shaadi nhi Hui ab tak ” whereas he is asked ” Aapne shaadi nhi Kari ab tak ” .

Why does marriage become a compulsion for me and a choice for him ?  Why is it always the boy has the right to reject the girl whereas a girl doing so would be considered inappropriate ? I don’t even understand that why does a thing like “character” or the much hyped “charitra” exists for a girl but not for boys . A boy with many girls will be a Casanova but the girl doing so is considered a slut .

At my workplace also why am the target of all your lewd jokes ? I have to bear your awful gaze and stupid comments every time . Getting a promotion would also put my so called “character” into question .

I m expected to be a good employee and an excellent housewife as well . I am alone supposed to be looking after everything in house in spite of being as fatigued as my spouse . But no …..you think it is only the men who have office issues whereas doing household work is my duty . Why don’t you see that you are also provided with the same number of pair of limbs as me ? Why can’t you work ?

Worst of all , it is considered decent to bear all the repression inflicted on me and I m expected to be mute to all the nonsense happening around me .

Do you even realise how suffocating it is ?

Sometimes I feel like fleeing but I know that wherever I go I will eventually fall into the clutches of this monster of patriarchy .

Why am I so disillusioned ?

Ladies please don’t think you are on the side of the angels here . Don’t forget you are one’s teaching your daughter to be “decent” and letting your sons do whatever they like . Laughing off their mistakes whereas punishing your daughters for the same . You are first one’s to question a woman’s character . You bear all the torture your husband inflicts on you and expect other women to do the same . You let patriarchy thrive and that’s why it comes to haunt you everywhere .

Protests, debates and discussions are not what is important . I want to see the practical implications of all that you speak of . A change in the government or some law is not what is important . Make a change in your perspective. Be the change yourself . If that happens these mass protests and campaigns won’t even be required and it then that a woman in our country will be respected in true sense .

Yours ,
A woman