Monday, September 2, 2013

CHANGE

I’m happy; I just can’t keep others happy!
well, many say I have changed, I say “change is good, change is worth the effort.”
you don’t just change in a day, you see, analyse, get hurt, get emotional, get betrayed and then one day you wake up to be someone totally different. Well, they just simply see the changes not the reasons behind you changing yourself.

There are happy days, and then there are sad days and then just DAYS. You keep yourself going somehow but then there is a disappointment that clings to your mind and body. This disappointment is out of nowhere, because the day you woke up and changed, your mind changed but then you felt stranded and alone. Suddenly you wish everything gets back to normal but it is too late! This is life, life is disappointing and expectations? Well, they hurt a lot more.
So just accept the change and focus on the pros rather than the cons. Because at the end of the day, those people because of whom you changed will themselves figure it out, because it’s not just your mess but there’s too.
Don’t take off on the guilt ride, everyone gets a chance to make a difference, everybody has to adapt to the change and then it changes completely, and this change is good, it keeps you going.
So yes I was somebody else yesterday, today I am someone new. No I do not change every day. I just keep myself going and then I adapt.
In this process, we lose many people, some are close and some are not! They are just stepping stones. You meet people, few stay, and the rest; well they walk away.
You can’t keep acting and pretending, some day you have to let go the people and live with the memory.
and now that I am a grown up, sensible enough to pen down my emotions, I find it easy for me to see and look through the changes and then simply accept them as a part and parcel of life!
But then don’t we a get a benefit of emotions? I mean cant we simply overlook and accept each others as we are, completely flawed and harmless! Just lost somewhere between the monopoly of life. Well, I guess not!
So when life is throwing these changes I me, I changed myself for my better own good!
As they “fittest survive”.
 
 

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